Monday, October 16, 2006

Jorge's Surprise Visit


It was cloudy Sunday early afternoon, October 15th.... I was in my house waiting for my boyfriend and trying to figure it out where to brunch, when my phone rang. It was Jorge, my great friend Jorge. He was here!!! He desided to surprise us and take a short trip to Puerto Rico. It was so good to have him here... AGAIN!


Jorge like Vanessa, Goñi, Felix are part of our Wild-Bunch called "La Tribu" (The Tribe). They graduate on May 2006. Vane, Jorge and Goñi went to Altanta to continue their master studies @ Georgia Tech and Felix went to VA to work @ Freddi Mac. We missed them greatly...So it ALWAYS GOOD TO HAVE AT LEAST ONE OF THEM BACK!

It was refreshing to have him here. Having lunch with him @ Mayaguez Town Center, "hanging" @ Borders...Like the old times. It was short time...too short for me. But, soon we will be Reunited, All "Tribu", on Dec 23, 2006...@ Chris & Gisy's Wedding...I'm waiting anxiously for that!!!

Friday, October 13, 2006

Do you have Triskaidekaphobia or Paraskevidekatriaphobia ?

Today I woke up after a hard night. I got the flu..."La monga" and didn't have much sleep. So, my perfect remedy for insomnia? My beloved computer. I turned it on and just figure it out...It's Friday October the 13th! Of Course! That's what I feel so terrible...Then the question popped...Am I a Triskaidekaphobic or Paraskevidekatriaphobic? "What the heck is that?" You may ask...Well, like every phobia is an irrational fear but guess of what?...Yes, you got it...fear of Friday the 13th.

No, I'm neither Triskaidekaphobic nor Paraskevidekatriaphobic, but have you ever wonder where this phobia or myth come from?

The reasons why Friday come to be regarded as a day of bad luck have been obscured by the mists of time some of the more common theories link it to a significant event in Christian tradition said to have taken place on Friday, such as the Crucifixion, Eve's offering the apple to Adam, the beginning of the Great Flood, or the confusion at the Tower of Babel.

One of my favorites is the story of Loki, the Norse god : "Twelve gods were invited to a banquet at Valhalla. Loki, the Evil One, god of mischief, had been left off the guest list but crashed the party, bringing the total number of attendees to 13. True to character, Loki raised hell by inciting Hod, the blind god of winter, to attack Balder the Good, who was a favorite of the gods. Hod took a spear of mistletoe offered by Loki and obediently hurled it at Balder, killing him instantly. All Valhalla grieved. And although one might take the moral of this story to be "Beware of uninvited guests bearing mistletoe," the Norse themselves apparently concluded that 13 people at a dinner party is just plain bad luck."

Although most people think, the belief that Friday 13 is an unlucky day is not that old. It more like a 20th century invention. No matter what they say, the phobia is real and present in our daily lives. Go to every hotel in the States and there is almost never a floor with the number 13 in it. Or ask them about why the Apollo 13 mission went wrong.

Myth or not, Friday the 13th is cool ad-on to our modern culture. It makes people look for a little history or learn new words ( like Triskaidekaphobia). I learned I'm not trikaidekaphobic. But if you are... What if the love of your life is waiting for you today on the 13th street's cafe? What if it's a myth after all? How could you miss the opportunity of enjoying another day of your live because of an irrational fear? I mean, It's irrational! So, get up you there and do something fun this Friday the 13th and you'll find is not that unlucky after all.

Monday, October 09, 2006

Welcome, Sebastian André!

I just wanted to welcome, my New "Nephew", Sebastian André!


On October 2, 2006, three weeks before expected, Sebastian André Lopez Guzman made his entrance to this world. He is the second son of my beloved cousin (but loved like a sister) Patricia and her husband Teddy Lopez. His 3-and-a-half-years brother Diego (my godson) is "fiebru" with his new little "toy" and his "titi" is crazy about him!